Picking Up Women – Don’t Let Them See You Sweat

Picking up women can be a stressful chore for some guys. So many guys feel that if they could just get past that awkward first ten minutes or so with a really hot woman that they would have it made. If they only knew what to say and how to say it they would be in and they could take it from there but the stress that comes with just approaching a really hot woman keeps many guys standing on the sidelines.

You know what it’s like. Your hands begin to sweat and you worry about what you’re going to say and what if your voice cracks. You rehearse what you’re going to say to engage her in conversation just hoping that you can last those five or ten minutes that will mean the difference between success and failure.

The truth is that even if you make it past those first ten minutes or so of talking with a really hot woman you are in for a lot more than you may have bargained for if you don’t have skills. These days a guy has to have so much more going on in the seduction department than they did even five years ago so listen up.

Fear – You might be intimidated by her beauty and her outwards appearance but keep in mind that she is no different than any other woman. She has the same fears and hangups that any other woman has. She worries that she is pretty or attractive enough to keep a guy’s attention past the initial stages in a relationship. She worries that she is too fat, too stupid, too everything. She has all the same fears as any other woman and any other human being.

Keep all of this in mind when you approach her and try not to be intimidated by her beauty. Actually, some women who are the most beautiful on the outside are actually the most insecure and sometimes just downright ugly on the inside. Remember that there is a whole dialog going on inside her head that would make you crazy if you had to listen to it.

Your Pickup Line – There is no need in complicating this whole process. Your opening line can be something as simple as a complement about what she is wearing or her earrings which will give you an opportunity to introduce yourself. Sometimes not coming off like a player can be an angle to play if you’re new at picking up women or if you really want to set yourself apart from the rest of the guys that are hitting on her. Be smooth and as natural as possible and be prepared to walk away if she gets snarky with you.

Game – As much as you might want to have just a load of game and be as slick and clever as can be, you can actually shoot yourself in the foot by trying too hard at first. Let the flirting build and play off of her flirting to draw her in and create a connection with her. Keep in mind that these days as a guy you will be expected to be good at flirting using text, email, phone and in person. If you drop the ball or aren’t skilled at flirting using all of these methods you are going to be at a big disadvantage when trying to pickup women.

The good news is that all of these skills can be learned and you really can learn how to be fast on your feet and become skilled at picking up women. These skills will put your head and shoulders over any other guy that is trying to get with the same woman that you have your sights set on.

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Picking Up Hot Girls – Know What She Wants to Hear

If you are hoping to learn how to pick up really hot girls there are a couple of things that you should keep in mind. Well, there are a lot of things to keep in mind and sometimes it may seem like a very complicated balancing act but when all of the pieces fall into place the act of flirting with a really beautiful woman can be more thrilling than any other past time known to man.

The thrill of the chase and the rapport that is built when you become really skilled at flirting and picking up women is second to none when it comes to having a good time. One thing to keep in mind though is that these women are still human beings. It can be tempting to forget this fact but try to remember that and treat each and every woman with the respect that you would want someone to give to your own sister, ok?

Looking at a beautiful woman that you are trying to get close to as a human being first can actually help you to overcome many of the obstacles that many guys run into when trying to pick up women. By remembering that every woman that you come in contact with has many of the same fears that are common to all of us but especially attractive women can help you tremendously if you think about it.

First, she doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat or a trophy that is to be won. Nobody wants to be used or viewed as simply a goal that is to be attained. As attractive as a woman might be she still has the same fears and doubts that most women have. She has days when she feels fat and ugly and stupid. She has times when she is just sick of dating loser guys who are only looking for one thing and she dreams of finding one good guy that she can really get close to.

The fact is that you can be that guy. You can be the guy that gives her renewed hope in mankind and make that connection with some really beautiful women if you understand these simple facts and use them to your advantage.

For instance, you approach a really beautiful woman that you have been trying to get up the guts to talk to all night long. She sees you coming and you get that feeling that you’re going to be shot down but you decide to go through with approaching her anyhow. You introduce yourself and instead of coming out with one of the same lines that she has probably heard from every other guy all night long you say something like, “I’m going to be leaving soon but before I go I just had to tell you that you have the most beautiful smile that I have ever seen. When you’re happy and having a good time your smile is just amazing. Your eyes sparkle and you just look so happy. It’s not phony or forced. I am talking about that genuine smile that you get on your face when nobody is looking that I think is just the cutest thing in the world.”

That is your opening line and where you take it from there is up to you. Most women will be blown away by this complement and you can almost guarantee at least a good 5 to 10 minute conversation if you play your cards right. Of course, be prepared to walk away if you don’t get a response from her and give her ten minutes or so to feel bad if she acts like a jerk to you.

While this is only one little tip it is a very effective way to break the ice and start a conversation with attractive women no matter what the social situation. For further tips and tricks on picking up women you can pick up our free book on flirting with women and creating attraction.

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Pickup Hot Women – Clever Bait and Switch Tactic That Works!

Many guys think that if they want to flirt with women they have to come off like a jerk. This is a common tactic that is preached by some flirting and seduction gurus and one that can potentially get you in a lot of trouble if not kill your chances with a woman if you’re not careful.

While it may be true that many women like the “bad boys” and do wind up with jerks, the truth is that they don’t go out looking for jerks. Women aren’t really attracted to guys that are completely disrespectful of them or treat them poorly in the beginning of a relationship. It is usually later on when a guy turns out to be a jerk when a woman realizes that she is stuck with a bad boy.

Women are attracted to guys that make them feel a certain way and this should be your goal. You are trying to elicit positive emotions from the woman that you are trying to flirt with and make her equate pleasure with you. You bring her pleasure and make her feel good and she will feel attracted to you. Pretty simple, right?

So how do you do this without coming off like a complete loser at the same time? How do you make her feel good and make her body tingle every time you are near without appearing to be just a “yes-man” in her eyes there to simply feed her ego?

It can be a delicate balancing act and it is necessary to temper your complement with a bit of a disclaimer. Take this for instance. This is one that is sure to at least get you the opportunity to talk with the woman that you are trying to flirt with. Tell her that she has to be the most beautiful woman in the room, office, bar or club. After she thank you continue with your flirting and tell her that it was actually very intimidating to walk up to her and talk to her because most gorgeous women are kind of stuck up but that you felt she was worth the gamble.

As she begins to blush and laugh look around the room and point out the competition. Let her know that there are many other beautiful women around but in your mind she has a prettier face or a nicer smile or that there is just something about her that is very special. Try to avoid words like “hot” or “sexy” or any direct reference to her body. She wants to feel beautiful and avoid treating her like a piece of meat.

This tactic is very effective in almost any situation and it will give you both the opportunity and confidence to continue flirting with just about any woman you desire. Even if she is with a group of friends you can cut her away from the herd and point out that she does have some very attractive friends but that there is just something ethereal and simply spectacular about her that you can’t quite put your finger on.

Feel free to knock some of the other girls in the place too. Pointing out that another girl is very attractive but that she looks angry or unapproachable or that another woman looks like she has an attitude can prove that you are perceptive as well as that you are looking at other women… but she has caught your eye enough for you to take the gamble and approach her.

Use these methods to complement a girl and she will stick around to continue feeling the positive feelings that you are giving her. While this is only the tip of the iceberg as far as flirting with women it will get you off on the right foot with any woman without you having to act like a jerk.

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